Together · for two people
Decide where to liveas the two of you.
The hardest part of moving with someone isn't the place — it's the quiet gap between what you each want and never quite say. You answer privately. Neither sees the other's words. Then one combined read shows where you align, where you diverge, and the conversations to have before you go.
Why it works
Privacy is what makes it honest.
The reason couples stall on this decision is that you each soften the truth to protect the other. So we take performing off the table. Your answers are sealed the moment you write them — your partner can never read them, only the combined read can. When no one's watching, the real answer finally has room to show up.
Sealed, not shared
Neither of you ever sees the other's raw words. Only the final read draws on both.
Honest about both sides
The read names where you want different things — gently, but without smoothing it over.
One of you begins
Buy once, for both of you, then send a private link to your partner. No second purchase.
You each answer alone
Two separate questionnaires, sealed the moment you write them. Never shared between you.
One read, together
A single combined report, written for the two of you — honest about both sides.
What you get
One read, written for the two of you.
Not two separate quizzes stapled together. A single document that holds both of you at once — and tells the truth about where you meet and where you don't.
Where you align
The shared ground you can build on — the wants that already point the same direction, named so you can trust them.
Where you quietly diverge
The gaps you've been talking around: pace, money, distance from family, how much change each of you actually wants.
How each of you was read
A side-by-side of what moves each of you — your drivers and theirs, in plain language, neither flattened into the other.
Destinations for the two of you
Places scored against both readings at once — what serves you both, and what would quietly cost one of you.
The conversations to have
The specific things worth talking through before you decide — the questions that are easier to face on paper first.
One shared question
The single thing the two of you need to settle, once everything else has been weighed.
Questions, answered
What couples ask first.
The honest questions two people have before they trust a decision this big to anything.
Correct. Each of you answers in a sealed, private questionnaire. Your raw words are never shown to the other person — not before, during, or after. Only the combined read draws on both sets of answers, and it speaks about you, never quotes you against each other.
No. It's one purchase for the two of you — $149, one-time. One of you buys, then sends a private link to the other. Your partner just answers their half; there's no second checkout.
Then the read says so — clearly and kindly. That's not a failure; it's the most useful thing it can do. It names the divergence, explains what each of you is really after underneath it, and gives you the specific conversation to have. Better to see it on paper than to discover it after the move.
No. It's a decision-making instrument, not therapy. It won't fix a relationship, and it doesn't try to. What it does is make the where-to-live decision honest and legible for two people at once, so the conversation you have is the real one.
A single written read: where you align, where you quietly diverge, how each of you was read, destinations weighed against both of you, the conversations worth having, and the one shared question left to settle. It's yours to keep and revisit.
The Deep Read reads one person's decision in depth. Together reads two people at once and, crucially, the space between you. If you're deciding alone, take the Deep Read. If the decision only works when it works for both of you, this is the one.
Together · $149, one-time
Have the real conversation — before you pack a single box.
One read. Two private answers. The honest version of the biggest decision you'll make as a pair.